Who do i choose?

[Alcatraz]

Hi,
Im in a relationship with a girl named rose, she has liked me for a long time and weve just been friends. a couple days ago i kissed her and then we started dating. Her cousin, Cassie, makes me happy, smile, and have fun where as rose doesn’t ive dated cassie for 3 0r 4 days before and she broke up with me cause she wasnt over her ex boyfriend. I’ve fallen for Cassie, and She still has feelings for me but neither one of us want to see rose hurt. Advice?

[MartinKeymaster]

Hey there Alcatraz – thanks for your visit and interesting question.

OK, let me get this right.
You’ve been dating Rose for a couple of days.
You’ve previously dated Cassie for 4 days.

So here’s just a few questions I’d like you to come back with, to give us some background:

[1] How old are each of you?
[2] Tell me 5 things of Rose that make you feel awesome
[3] Now tell me 5 things of Cassie that make you feel awesome

Come back with those and let’s take it further then.

[Alcatraz]

im 16 and they are 15

Rose doesnt really makke me feel awesome if im honest, shes really weird to talk to and i guess i strated dating her because it was challanging or maybe i was displacing my feelings for cassie

Cassie makes me smile, be myself, act stupid, have fun, and feel loved

[MartinKeymaster]

Your choice is clear then – Cassie.

You’re now about to do some growing up though. You need to sit down with Rose and be honest, with no bullshit. Remember this has to do with a person’s feelings too so look up the word ‘diplomatic’ and use lashing of it in the conversation.

Rose is a great person. She’s her own person and needs to retain her uniquesness.

[Alcatraz]

i will and thank you

[MartinKeymaster]

Our pleasure – now tell the world to come and visit us :)
Have fun and play safe

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