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Healing from the Pain of Infidelity

Posted by GuestAccount
/ December 23, 2011 / 3 Comments

Healing from the Pain of Infidelity as a Couple
When someone commits infidelity it doesn’t always mean they want to end their marriage. It doesn’t quite make a lot of sense, but it’s true. Many times, the person cheats for other reasons that has nothing to do with the love they have for their partner.
The problem is that the consequences of their cheating devastate their marriage. It tears down the house of marriage the couple has built right down to the foundation. This leaves the couple to rebuild the marriage from the foundation.
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Tagged adultery, cheating, cheating partner, cheating relationships, Infidelity, rekindle romance, trust
Warning: Ashley Madison Destroys World

Posted by TheGeek
/ September 11, 2011 / 5 Comments

I get a heap of junk mail, being an Internet denizen for over 25 years. Recently, I’ve seen an increase in Junk mail for the likes of Ashley Madison, Badoo and NoStringsAttached.

There’s piles of these sites popping up everywhere.

Is Being An Adulterer Popular?

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Tagged affairs, Ashley Madison, cheating, dating
After Cheating: Does Your Relationship Still Have A Chance?

Posted by GuestAccount
/ August 15, 2011 / 3 Comments

This is a guest post by Amy C. If you want to guest post on this blog, check out the guidelines here.

Any Chance Of A Relationship After Cheating?

You learned that your husband cheated on you. You feel like your world fell apart, your heart torn from your chest because of grief. You can’t seem to understand why this happened to you. You seem to be shocked on how you got yourself in this situation.

You have to remember that you are not the only one suffering. About sixty percent (60%) of men cheat. And, as most say, it’s normal. Life after cheating is terribly painful and hard. You have a lot of questions but it seems that answers are scarce. And as you look at your husband, you see a very different person.

Your relationship changed and your family not in its usual pace.

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Tagged cheating, cheating partner, cheating relationships, extramarital affairs, Infidelity, relationship recovery
Is Cheating All About Your Own Needs?

Posted by TheGeek
/ May 5, 2011 / 8 Comments

There’s been a number of different articles on the site about cheating and why it happens.

You can check out ‘ A Healthy Marriage Sees Partners Cheat - Why? ‘ as one example I wrote back in September 2010.

The missing part of that post was around the underlying reasons that it relates directly to the cheaters own personal value system. And what is a value system?

It’s essentially what’s most important to a person - and bear in mind, these things change with time as well.

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Tagged cheating, cheating partner, cheating relationships, healthy marriage, healthy relationship, marriage breakdown, unhealthy marriage, value system
How About a Reality Show That Creates a Better Reality

Posted by TheGeek
/ October 28, 2010 / 3 Comments

The media promotions are billing this as ‘the greatest social experiment of television’.

I’ve never really been that excited by reality shows, per se, however I happened to see the advertising for ‘Beauty and the Geek’ while Pam and I were watching some current affair show, one evening. I remember making the comment ‘Is it me or have these show producers picked out the ditziest women they could possibly find?’

And the Actual show was worse

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Tagged beauty and the geek, bimbo, cheating, education, geek, reality, understanding, women
Top Reasons Why Partners Cheat

Posted by TheGeek
/ September 4, 2010 / 2 Comments

I was asked personally by one of our members the other day, why do people cheat on their partners when they have a healthy marriage.

This was in response to my recent blog post on Cheating It’s a Human Gene.
I certainly don’t condone cheating in any way, shape or form. To me, it’s a betrayal of your trust with your partner — and I think it’s the betrayal and the destruction of that trust that’s far worse than the actual act of the cheating. That’s my view anyway.

Some people may very well think it’s the sex acts with another person that’s the issue however, I think, there are deeper more emotional factors at play and here's how to maintain a healthy relationship with your partner.

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Tagged cheating, dating, having an affair, healthy marriage, how to maintain a healthy relationship, husband, Infidelity, trust, wife