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  1. Healing from the Pain of Infidelity

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    Healing from the Pain of Infidelity as a Couple

    When someone commits infidelity it doesn’t always mean they want to end their marriage. It doesn’t quite make a lot of sense, but it’s true. Many times, the person cheats for other reasons that has nothing to do with the love they have for their partner.

    The problem is that the consequences of their cheating devastate their marriage. It tears down the house of marriage the couple has built right down to the foundation. This leaves the couple to rebuild the marriage from the foundation.

  2. After Cheating: Does Your Relationship Still Have A Chance?

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    This is a guest post by Amy C. If you want to guest post on this blog, check out the guidelines here.

     

    Any Chance Of A Relationship After Cheating?

    You learned that your husband cheated on you. You feel like your world fell apart, your heart torn from your chest because of grief. You can’t seem to understand why this happened to you. You seem to be shocked on how you got yourself in this situation.

    You have to remember that you are not the only one suffering. About sixty percent (60%) of men cheat. And, as most say, it’s normal. Life after cheating is terribly painful and hard. You have a lot of questions but it seems that answers are scarce. And as you look at your husband, you see a very different person.

    Your relationship changed and your family not in its usual pace.

     

  3. Is Spying On Your Partner Healthy?

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    There's always two sides to every story, isn't there?

    If you have yet to check out a recent guest blog post on 'Is Technology Destroying Relationships?', do go give it a read. It's been a popular post and I'd like to talk about the other side to it now.

    Technology Warning Before We Start

    I’d like to start off by saying you should really only be looking into these sorts of probing ONLY if you have suspicions - doing otherwise suggests your relationships might have trust, honesty and communication challenges, in some regard.

    While we all have to be mindful of too much technology detracting from the personal and human interaction of a healthy relationship, technology has it's uses in protecting people from getting into a relationship with someone with a bad history of abuse or deception.

    I heard a recent radio segment the other day on a number of women who had to end their relationships, due to the discovery their boyfriends or partners were what they referred to as 'love rats'. The term was one I'd never heard however a love rat is the same as a 'bad boy'.

  4. Is Cheating All About Your Own Needs?

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    There’s been a number of different articles on the site about cheating and why it happens.

    You can check out ‘ A Healthy Marriage Sees Partners Cheat - Why? ‘ as one example I wrote back in September 2010.

    The missing part of that post was around the underlying reasons that it relates directly to the cheaters own personal value system. And what is a value system?

    It’s essentially what’s most important to a person - and bear in mind, these things change with time as well.