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    Healing from the Pain of Infidelity

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    / December 23, 2011 / 3 Comments

    Healing from the Pain of Infidelity as a Couple

    When someone commits infidelity it doesn’t always mean they want to end their marriage. It doesn’t quite make a lot of sense, but it’s true. Many times, the person cheats for other reasons that has nothing to do with the love they have for their partner.

    The problem is that the consequences of their cheating devastate their marriage. It tears down the house of marriage the couple has built right down to the foundation. This leaves the couple to rebuild the marriage from the foundation.

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    Demi and Ashton Could Have Saved The Marriage

    Posted by
    / November 21, 2011 / 1 Comment

     

    Christ, it’s happened again, in celebrity world. Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher have announced they’re splitting up. Just when you thought there might be a chance of a workable Hollywood union, they come along and screw it up.

    On The Surface

    • Beautiful People
    • Seemingly and totally in love
    • Workable partnership
    • Sharing time and effort
    • Mutual and public respect for each other
    • … The list goes on

    The Pressure Cooker Of Life?

    Celebrities just seem to give up on things faster than most.

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    When Is It Actually Cheating?

    Posted by
    / November 5, 2011 / 10 Comments


    Well here’s an interesting conversation I just had with my beautiful wife, Pam - it was around what she thought as cheating.

    We were having a wine after we both got home from work and were chatting about the various behaviours of cheating in other countries.

    I was indicating her home country of South Africa had a larger prevalence to males cheating on their partners and Pam suggested that was pretty much on par for all countries.

    Anyway as we talked, she recalled a story I told her a year or so ago about a late night staff outing in the Brisbane Central Business District.

    Many Years Ago

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    After Cheating: Does Your Relationship Still Have A Chance?

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    / August 15, 2011 / 3 Comments

    This is a guest post by Amy C. If you want to guest post on this blog, check out the guidelines here.

     

    Any Chance Of A Relationship After Cheating?

    You learned that your husband cheated on you. You feel like your world fell apart, your heart torn from your chest because of grief. You can’t seem to understand why this happened to you. You seem to be shocked on how you got yourself in this situation.

    You have to remember that you are not the only one suffering. About sixty percent (60%) of men cheat. And, as most say, it’s normal. Life after cheating is terribly painful and hard. You have a lot of questions but it seems that answers are scarce. And as you look at your husband, you see a very different person.

    Your relationship changed and your family not in its usual pace.

     

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    Top Reasons Why Partners Cheat

    Posted by
    / September 4, 2010 / 2 Comments

    I was asked personally by one of our members the other day, why do people cheat on their partners when they have a healthy marriage.

    This was in response to my recent blog post on Cheating It’s a Human Gene.

    I certainly don’t condone cheating in any way, shape or form. To me, it’s a betrayal of your trust with your partner — and I think it’s the betrayal and the destruction of that trust that’s far worse than the actual act of the cheating. That’s my view anyway.

    Some people may very well think it’s the sex acts with another person that’s the issue however, I think, there are deeper more emotional factors at play and here's how to maintain a healthy relationship with your partner.

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    Cheating – I Think It’s A Human Gene Or Is It?

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    / August 20, 2010 / 4 Comments

    I recently read an article on CNN that suggested there is a link between a person's income and whether they're likely to cheat on their partner. Here's a few excerpts to begin with:

    Men who are completely economically dependent on their female partners are five times more likely to cheat than men in relationships with women who earned similar amounts, according to the the study's author, Christin Munsch, a sociology Ph.D. candidate at Cornell University.

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