Relationships take courage, determination & planning so they succeed. If you are doing these 3 things actively then you have the best chance at a long lasting relationship.
Love is definitely a paradox. You can be in a relationship with love and still have an abundance of negative emotions swirling around everywhere. Think of those situations where you love your partner and you’re in an argument. There are moments when you could just scream! Yeah, love can be attached to loathing too.