Those Damn Adult Dating Sites!

I get a heap of junk mail, being an Internet denizen for over 25 years.

Recently, I’ve seen an increase in Junk mail for the likes of Ashley Madison, Badoo and NoStringsAttached.

There’s piles of these sites popping up everywhere.

 

Is Being An Adulterer Popular?

With an enquiring mind and an interest in what was going on, I registered on NoStringAttached (no longer registered since I wrote this post) just to see the sort of activity as well as the number and type of people who are actually setting to purely have sex while still married or in a relationship.

I wonder whether they give any thoughts that they're also going to violate their marriage vows and, just as importantly, engage in deception and secrecy.

I was blown away (pardon the pun).

Check this screenshot of the number of women in my local area of Buderim, Sunshine Coast – Buderim is a small area and this site, as far as I know, is really quite new.

no strings attached adultery

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Ashley Madison’s site boasts a membership of more than 8,500,000 registered people.

On first glance, I thought this was unbelievable and probably a marketing gimmick.

Witnessing firsthand the number of women in my local community that have embarked on screwing anything that moves, I’m now convinced society is slowly and innocuously turning a blind eye to what will destroy the fabric of our morals.

 

Will It Rain For 40 Days and Nights?

The human brain can justify any decision we make, no matter how stupid or even immoral.

I’ve written a number of post on Emotional Affairs and Marital Affairs and why they might happen, even in a supposed healthy relationship – check out ‘Is Cheating About Our Own Needs’ as well as ‘Top Reasons Why Partners Cheat’ for a refresher on the background information on extramarital cheating and affairs.

But where is civilisation headed?

It’s a long held belief humans grow strong, healthy and wise when they grow up from a loving, nurtured and caring family unit.

These, in my view, are the very building blocks which make us into rational, fair-minded, loving human beings who care for others and perpetuate the positive minded value system of the species.

Positive breeds positive and negative generates more negative.

Imagine the spectacle of old time Gomorrah which was the image I pondered on.

Ashley Madison and NoStringsAttached are money making ventured, hinged on the hopes and lust of people looking to sneak out and engage in sex chat and sexual acts with those equally willing to indulge.

It’s all about the money for them – sex sells, sneaky sex probably sells in even bigger quantities and when I joined NoStringsAttached, I was prompted within the first few pages I clicked on to upgrade so I can send messages to other adulterers.

Ashley Madison really is an online brothel.

Members are prostituting themselves – you can’t argue the fact that members are paying for sex.

 

Is Having An ExtraMarital Affair A Good Thing?

Now I’m a pretty liberal minded guy, if you’ve read some of GeekandJock’s posts and articles.

Apart from liberal minded, I’m also very much a positive minded and moral person.

I love making love.

I have fantasies as well as lustful desires and hang-ups, just like everyone else on the planet.

Does this mean I have the right to go out behind my partner’s back and screw my brains out, just for my own pleasure?

Would I like that to be happening behind my back? Is this the way to treat someone you love?

No … No … No

Ashley Madison and websites like it will eventually destroy the very fabric of society’s morals and we’ll end up in relationship chaos and downward spiralling depravity.

 

Genuine Dating and Relationship Website

I think I’ll start putting together a GeekandJock Dating website that concentrates on sincere and genuine relationships as my own contribution to saving the world.

 

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