Time To Rethink Men
Ladies, the way to a man's heart doesn't have to be between his legs.
These 10 tips on how to please your man are guaranteed to keep him tied to your pretty little finger.
Cuddling is a keeper
Women aren't the only ones who like to cuddle – men like it, too.
In fact, they probably like it more than women.
One study notes that men require three times more touching to get the same amount of that feel-good hormone dopamine.
Cuddling doesn't just feel good; it's also healthy for both of you.
Please your husband – learn to cook!
You know that old saying that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach?
Well, it's true!
Men who grew up with their moms, grandmothers or sisters cooking for them expect the same from their partners.
So if all you know is how to microwave a TV dinner, then you better bring out those cookbooks.
Listen, don't talk
Stop gabbing, and start listening.
Develop your listening skills and hear your man out.
Pay attention and look him in the eye when he starts talking.
Make an effort to listen to what he has to say — he'll even thank you for it.
Encourage, not discourage
If you want to know how to keep your man, then you need to know how to stroke his ego.
If he has a big project coming up, encourage him to keep up the good work.
Praise his efforts so that he knows that you are right behind him in whatever he does.
Curb your nagging
Let's face it, most women can't help but nag their men most times.
No one wants to be around a nagger and a complainer — especially your man.
You can tell him what displeases you without constantly getting in his face about it.
If you do need to complain, say it once and listen to what he has to say in response.
Keep it fresh
Nothing is worse than a stale and routine-type relationship.
Your man will get bored, and might even start looking elsewhere for a change.
Mix things up by surprising him – it could be an adventurous date, or a scavenger hunt where the prize is yourself.
Do something new whenever you can, and he'll have fun trying to guess what you have in store for him next.
His interests are your interests
Does your guy like sports?
Join him on game night and cheer along for his favorite team.
Or if he's the geeky type who likes Cosplay and comic books, set aside your romance novels and discuss the latest superhero franchise with him.
You can even dress up with him at Comic Con.
Read his moods, anticipate his needs
Men like to be taken care of, despite what they say.
If he's upset, comfort him with your arms – and maybe some hot cocoa.
If he's just had a long run, greet him at the door with a cool drink.
Little gestures like this show that you pay attention to him.
Don't be a cling wrap
Nothing annoys men more than having a wife or girlfriend constantly asking where they are or who they're with.
Learn to trust your man and give him space if he wants to be with his friends, or anyone else besides you.
You don't need to spend every moment together. Encourage him to do his own thing or be with his own friends.
Your collective sanity will thank you for it.
Have you noticed that couples in successful relationships are always laughing with each other?
Sometimes people forget to just relax and have fun. Instead, they are so focused on trying to make their relationship perfect.
But as long as you and your partner learn to laugh and just have fun, then you'll both be happy.
Keep these tips in mind and learn how to please your man to have a happier and longer lasting relationship.
These are just 10 tips, though.
If you have more tips to keep your man happy, feel free to share it with us in the comments below.
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