sex tips for 2013

Great Sex Leads to Healthy Relationships!

Already a few weeks into the New Year and gyms are full of people in an endless effort to become more fit and healthy.

Perhaps you know some friends who have stopped smoking. Are you feeling a little left out of the personal-betterment this time of year?

Here’s a fantastically fun ride: Make a New Year Resolution to have better sex!

Great Sex Leads to a Healthy Relationship
Oh yeah, baby!

To make it even easier, follow the 5 tips below and hold on for a wild ride into a land of forbidden pleasures and fantastic fun.


1. Sexy Toys.

Skipping the beginner details and assuming you already have sex toys in your bedroom, this tip is helping to expand the repertoire a little bit more.

Time to revisit a few ideas that have recently evolved into great products that really work.

An example is the vibrating ring visit this page to check out some of the newer models fresh on the market.

Gone are the old days of solid jelly ugly things your man would wear and the look would kill the mood.

This is simply one example but the purpose of the point is to check out a shop together for new ideas.

Skip the vibrator aisle and go for something you don’t have already.


2. Striptease!

A real treat for your man and an unexpectedly empowering treat for you.

demi moore in striptease
If Demi Moore can do it, you can too

Many women may initially scoff at this idea but once you’re up there, doing your sexy moves being the center of his universe, he’ll be drooling from the corner of his mouth, you’ll feel like a goddess.

Add some sexy lingerie or stripper clothes to complete the package.

This is actually an important piece of advice – you need to be covered up as this creates more desire on his part and it will also help with your confidence as you can play with tassels and letting him take a peek at what is underneath.

It’s suggested to take a class to get some moves down first otherwise you could be left with an awkward performance which will certainly not benefit your self confidence!

Once you’ve got a show ready, tie him to a chair with a neck tie and force him to keep hands off while you lick his body and tease him like never before!


3. Quickies!

Stop reading tips about foreplay and get your mind filled with quickie ideas.

Look around the house, your yard or even other places outdoors and picture yourself having sex there.

To leave the bedroom and explore other places adds to the excitement.

Here are a few fun places to try:

  • In the hallway
  • on the bathroom
  • on kitchen counter
  • in the shower
  • on the couch
  • in your car

The goal here is to make it quick and passionate, like a sexy encounter scene in a movie.


4. Read Erotica Novels

For women only, the mind is the most important tool in getting sexually aroused.

50 shades of grey and naughty
Whatever gets the juices flowing is a GREAT thing for everyone

Reading erotica novels trains the mind to imagine hot sec scenes and passionate lovers.

You’ll get ideas on storyline and reading these tales also gets your body in the mood for sex, sometime you’ll notice you may get wet down there, a good sign that means the mind has began getting the body in the mood.

Now track down your man and have your way with him!


5. Fantasize

Enjoying a wild fantasy is always good, accompanying the previous tip however this one is taken under the covers.

Pretend your lover is a knight, a solider, policeman or any other sexy character you are hot for.

Pretend you’re a slave, a princess or a trophy wife.

Put yourself into the moment of being someone else and the sex is easily out of this world!


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Trina writes articles for couples promoting a fun and sexy love life through all stages of the relationship from courtship to dating, into marriage and beyond! Her tips are featured on several online magazines and in print offering singles and couples sexy ideas for a passionate sex life.

Trina – who has written posts on GeekandJock.

5 thoughts on “5 Tips for Great Sex in Any Year”
  1. there are no two ways about it, sex is a catalyst to a better and healthy relationship. nice points!

    1. I’m being a bit naughty solomon but did you really mean ‘nice points’ lol
      Damn that Demi Moore is in fine shape for her age. Hope I’m the same

  2. Thank you for this article!

    I was expecting a hole different story, you hear more and more about taking time don’t do the quickies… but i could not agree more with you.
    Good to see there are others who think about in the same way i do.

    Regards, Janni

    1. Great to hear from you Janni and especially so on an article about sex which most people feel a little shy about, on commenting on.
      Do you only do quickies though? Was there another insight in the post you found interesting or helpful in knowing about?

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