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Sexy Women Come in All Shapes AND Ages

I was asked the other day this question, given the fact I’d just been through the dating game which ended wonderfully with my marriage to my wife.

Are Women Over 40 Still Considered Sexy?

Well, I’m all for healthy relationship activities and, for me, I eventually discovered that younger women were actually far more immature for me.

It turns out, for me, not to be sexy OR desirable.

It’s a great ego boost when I did date younger women.

Younger women were on a different outlook than I was though.

It is an interesting question and one I’d immediately answer a resounding, Yes.

Yes, with caveats though, since everyone has differences and the woman that you meet must certainly be the right person that you imagine is your perfect partner.


What Are You Looking For?

Now, if you are a guy out there dating, it’s important to map out the characteristics that you are looking for.

The person who you ideally want to call ‘ soul mate ‘. Personally, I love mindmaps and used them to map out who it was I wanted to come into my life.

The reason for this is it gets you thinking without ending up with the same person you previously were with but in a different body.

Attracting your own sexy women into your life with mindmapping
Start off with the core basics – this is a starting point.
Yours should be a little different, depending on your core values.
Sexy women could soon be knocking on your doorstep :)

How many times have you heard of someone getting divorced and remarrying a person who ends up having all the crap personalities traits of the divorced person?

Do you know why?

There’s been no thought given to who it is you want so you attract what’s already in your mind – and that’s typically the previous partner.

When I was dating, I was really only attracting sexy women who were meeting my ‘criteria’.

The dating relationships ended up all meeting more than 90% of the criteria – that was an amazing thing for me to witness for the very first time, don’t you think?


I was sure to tweak the criteria when it either made little sense or I needed to add something as I went through a relationship.

It’s great to do it as you’re constantly thinking of the person you’re wanting.

My analogy is the process is like buying a particular type of car.

Suddenly, you’re always seeing the same car type everywhere you go.

What’s happening here is your mind is in an alert status.

Your radar is going and all loaded up with what you’re looking for.


And For Women Over 40 – What’s Sexy Anyway?

I find women over 40 to be mature, sensible, and usually quite stable – hence the sexy women title :)

Some of them are also carrying ‘life baggage’ and you need to be attuned to this and determine whether the baggage is too much for your partnership to bear.

And it’s fine to end a relationship due to baggage – you’re the one needing to be primarily happy.

I know the mere thought of a guy in his 40s or 50s dating a woman in her 20s or 30s is certainly appealing – you know what I mean with tight firm bodies, the ego trip that typically goes along with the age difference and younger women ofttimes idolize older guys.

My opinion was my preference was to have a woman around my age, with a tight firm body, who was attractive and with little baggage – of course, I can have that.

And that’s exactly the relationships I was attracting – you just have to be open for it to happen.

The world is filled with your perfect partner – multiple perfections are awaiting providing you’re open and accepting for the possibility of your partner coming from just about anywhere.

As an update and something many younger men don’t pick up on until later in life, is that differences in race and skin color will eventually win you over. Most reading this will be caucasian – but now imagine clawing up at night with a slim, and naturally tanned Asian woman. You will find many sexy Thai women over at ThaiRomances – go have a look yourself.

It’s exactly like an opportunity – they can come in any form, from anywhere and at any time.


Speak Your Mind, With Your Opinion

Nice to see you made it this far so here’s what you can do next:

  • What are your own thoughts on ‘over 40’ women?
  • What’s one experience that you’ve had .. for better or worse?

And thanks for reading too – Let us know your thoughts in the comments.

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Enjoying newly found freedoms in South-East Asia, Martin is a down to earth, honest, quirky humor, compassionate and upfront kinda guy. Easy going and love to laugh. Into good food, wine and great company. I’ll talk and try to help anyone.
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Martin Cooney – who has written posts on GeekandJock.

7 thoughts on “Can You Find Sexy Women Over 40?”
  1. There are so many women over 40 that are sexy, beautiful and incredible. Life experience counts for a lot too :)

    1. ain’t that the truth! Surprising how many guys think that older women aren’t worthy of attention. But that immaturity talking there, if you ask me.

  2. A woman over 40 is sexy IF

    She is confident-Aware of herself but not into herself :)
    Experience often makes them confident and they know what to wear and when.

    1. Thank for the visit and comment, Papia.
      My woman is now over 50 and still incredibly sexy and beautiful. I do get what you say on experience too.
      It’s a definite advantage for all women to grow out of their self-doubt and live in confidence.

  3. I only date women over 40. Younger ones are a little too ditzy for me – well, in the short to long term anyway. Agree they're a great ego boost for a little while.

    I know a few guys that have had relationships with younger women and they've all ended poorly – younger ones have many more wild oats to sow or at least they think they do and that ends things unfortunately.

    1. Would have to agree with Mitchell. I'm no spring chicken and I've certainly had many opportunities to date and have a relationship with women that are much much younger than me. And I've certainly done so in the past.
      Maybe it's an ego thing. You know, older guy arm-in-arm with an attractive young female. Yes, when I think more on that, it's certainly a male ego trip.

      Anyway, after a short time in the relationship, I've found there simply isn't that much to it all. The women certainly appreciate an older guy with experience and that's providing you have experience as well as maturity in treating a women with respect, passion and gentle guidance. With that said, I find that ladies over 40 are just what the doctor ordered. They've seen life, learnt from past experience and generally recognize a guy their age or older who has what it takes to make them happy.

      And look out for ones with too much baggage too :)

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