Change Is Evolution
You often hear that age old saying from one partner to another ‘If you really love me, you shouldn’t want me to change’.
It’s true to a point.
A relationship with someone is far more than operating individually.
Some people might act that way but they’ve got the definition of what a partnership or relationship really is.
Change Is Love
Question: Do you want your love to increase or whither?
Answer: Increase, of course! D’oh
And therein lies the real meaning of you wanting to change.
Not because someone is forcing you to but for the evolution of your love.
Your own love for yourself and the love you share with your partner.
Change Is For Humans
If we weren’t meant to change and evolve, we’d all still be crawling around the floor like babies.
They have the innocent common-sense to recognise they need to be better than they are.
Relationships are exactly like that.
Do you honestly think a relationship isn’t meant to grow into something better than it’s parts?
Growth means self-awareness of areas that you know need adjustment.
Growth means trusting your partner to help you become self-aware.
Growth means actually doing something about your repeating patterns of bullshit in your personal life as well as failures in past relationships.
If you keep getting the same outcomes, you need to alter something significant within yourself. Trusting an invested partner is your first step towards brilliance.
Change Is For Kindred Spirits
Despite a recent personal disaster, I still hold true to the belief that with the right person watching your back through life, you BOTH will attain significant rewards that go well beyond those you could do individually.
I refrain from mentioning attaining ascendence :)
Finding your soulmate isn’t always easy and you’ll likely move through a number of relationship before that special person is revealed. It will happen if you hold fast on your path and intentions.
The lesson to learn is change brings rewards. Change is a good thing.
Evolve yourself and be proud your partner wants to be a part of it as well as their own.
You are two peas in the same pod, aren’t you?
Makes sense to keep watering for the harvest, don't you think?
What do you think?