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  • Domonique Powell
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    “Texting all the time is what a lot of women like to do. If you don’t, YOU pick up the damn phone and tell them.

    LOL…I would love to but they have to answer it first and talk more than 2 minutes. I call ..they dont answer but then text for an hour. I dont get it. But whatever the reasons I just figure they are hiding something or they are just not that into me. Either way it's a sign for me to move on. I mean I don't even know them so I dont feel compelled or care enough to ask them why. One thing I have learned is that men open up when they are ready and asking a lot personal questions too soon runs them off.

  • Domonique Powell
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    Update:
    Well, it has been a few weeks on the dating scene trying a new approach and new attitude. The results so far are that I seem to be more approachable by different types of men because I now have a variety suitors. Also, I have been able to carry on enjoyable conversation without sex repeatedly being the main topic. But no dice so far. I have guys telling me that they are interested and blowing up my phone but I can't seem to get them out the house or away from work long enough to actually “date” me.

    I have also been wondering why some of them feel like a few convos deem them worthy of receiving nudey pics even when we have never spent any face time together…lol and what's with grown men wanting to text all the time? dial the damn number! lol Oh well, still no sex for me. Been waiting over 8 mths now and will continue holding out for a real connection.

  • Domonique Powell
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    LOL…yep that's what I meant. I forgot to add “I want (to be)” Well, I think working on my trust issues would be a good place to start. If my guard wasn't so high, I believe opening up emotionally will come shortly behind naturally.

  • Domonique Powell
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    I agree. “wanting to build inter-dependence as in to want to walk WITH your man” “two people walking through separate lives” I think that is why I canceled my engagements.

    I knew I wasnt willing to bend enough to be in a partnership. So, I guess I want something between a fuck buddy and a wife…lol Well thanks for your feedback. Looks like I need to work on some trust issues and opening up of my own. I am starting to think that maybe some of the hit and quit guys sensed that I wasn't ready for a real relationship and thats why some left. I never thought of it that way before. Good Job.

  • Domonique Powell
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    “Make just one conscious change in your dating behaviour and mix it up a little. Not all guys are bastards :)”

    Thanks for the advice. And I do believe that learned behaviors can subconsciously be repeated thus get the same result. I guess I need to figure out how I am contributing the problem.

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