Martin

you're in for some long term relationship pain unless you get your house in order
and by that i mean get this woman OUT of the house.
how the heck do you think you both are going to have any sort of normality with […]

Thailand is certainly one of those bucket list places
try ThaiRomances.Com
umm, no-one is likely to go scouting for women for you :)
Why would you even think about doing that?

I didn't write this article and threesomes aren't for me.
That said, if you and yours are openly doing it then all power to you if it's a mutually rewarding experience. Your partner should not be chatting without […]

you're welcome Mark
Enjoy Thailand when you get to go there

Sounds like the guy has something else going on in his life, making him a little weird.
At the end of the day if his behaviour is not to your liking then simply drop him and find another fuckbuddy or boyfriend – […]

well from what you say you want something more than a fuckbuddy which is nearly always the route for a woman in this situation.
if this arrangement for him is just a fuckbuddy and that's all he's wanting then […]

Really? I'm 59 and my girlfriend of 9 months is 30 – what's the problem if both are happy?
And it's great you're happily married too

Hmm well I've lived in Bangkok for 4 years or so and have never had that thrust upon me.
that's not to say it doesn't happen as you've obviously witnessed firsthand.

But the first mistake was asking for a 2nd […]

How old are you?
you wrote 1 long sentence that makes no sense

sounds to me like you're a bit of a control freak.
‘influence her best friend' isn't the sort of thoughts you should be having.
anyways, you repeatly have said about breaking up – do what you say and give her […]

Hi Bill and thanks for visiting the site
What country are you living and which one is the lady you refer to?
I'm currently visiting in Thailand and the Philippines – 2 wonderful countries that respect older […]

thats kind of the same advice for most asian countries ^_^

well you never know what interesting things lurk in another person's past :)
but, yes, i think he's yet another charleton

well sounds like it's time to make the move for your own independence. A guy who can't get off his arse for a simple movie out with his partner needs to now take a backseat to your own happiness and future.
He may […]

thanks for the comment Michael
while your experience is true for many, I have a few friends myself that have lived in the Philippines for the past 6 years and are exceptionally happy with the same lady.
No matter […]

have you tried starting out with something small like a date night?
if he watches TV so much he must surely like watching movies – going to the movies is easy to do and not expensive
the purpose is to reconnect […]

Surprisingly I've enjoyed the couples massages – well in Thailand and the Philippines they are even better :)

I'm looking forward to hearing of other real life experiences from Western guys having been to Thailand ^^