Martin

well somehow, sometime he needs to grow a backbone.
Until that time he'll be walked over and used as he is now.
I don't think there's going to be much you are going to do, after so many years of being […]

sounds to me that it might be mutual.
in some way you need to verbalise what you're thinking to discover what he's thinking or you'll continue going in circles inside your head.
it's OK to continue your fuckbuddy […]

you're in for some long term relationship pain unless you get your house in order
and by that i mean get this woman OUT of the house.
how the heck do you think you both are going to have any sort of normality with […]

Thailand is certainly one of those bucket list places
try ThaiRomances.Com
umm, no-one is likely to go scouting for women for you :)
Why would you even think about doing that?

I didn't write this article and threesomes aren't for me.
That said, if you and yours are openly doing it then all power to you if it's a mutually rewarding experience. Your partner should not be chatting without […]

you're welcome Mark
Enjoy Thailand when you get to go there

Sounds like the guy has something else going on in his life, making him a little weird.
At the end of the day if his behaviour is not to your liking then simply drop him and find another fuckbuddy or boyfriend – […]

well from what you say you want something more than a fuckbuddy which is nearly always the route for a woman in this situation.
if this arrangement for him is just a fuckbuddy and that's all he's wanting then […]

Really? I'm 59 and my girlfriend of 9 months is 30 – what's the problem if both are happy?
And it's great you're happily married too

Hmm well I've lived in Bangkok for 4 years or so and have never had that thrust upon me.
that's not to say it doesn't happen as you've obviously witnessed firsthand.

But the first mistake was asking for a 2nd […]

How old are you?
you wrote 1 long sentence that makes no sense

sounds to me like you're a bit of a control freak.
‘influence her best friend' isn't the sort of thoughts you should be having.
anyways, you repeatly have said about breaking up – do what you say and give her […]

Hi Bill and thanks for visiting the site
What country are you living and which one is the lady you refer to?
I'm currently visiting in Thailand and the Philippines – 2 wonderful countries that respect older […]

thats kind of the same advice for most asian countries ^_^

well you never know what interesting things lurk in another person's past :)
but, yes, i think he's yet another charleton

well sounds like it's time to make the move for your own independence. A guy who can't get off his arse for a simple movie out with his partner needs to now take a backseat to your own happiness and future.
He may […]

thanks for the comment Michael
while your experience is true for many, I have a few friends myself that have lived in the Philippines for the past 6 years and are exceptionally happy with the same lady.
No matter […]

have you tried starting out with something small like a date night?
if he watches TV so much he must surely like watching movies – going to the movies is easy to do and not expensive
the purpose is to reconnect […]