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Currently I am seeking for non-public advice and am hoping you can help?
I've been seeing this guy for 8 months. We are both in our late thirties.
He is married, left his wife to be with me (we have been friends for 5 years). He has his own place. Although, we've been together for almost 7 months now, he hasn't filed for a divorce and this concerns me.
Each month he tells me he will file but comes up with an excuse like he cant afford to hire a lawyer, although he and his wife have no children together and share no financial assets.
Today I learned that he was going to play a show out of town. He's going in a van with all his musical band members and all their girlfriends to play a show and party back at a motel overnight but did not invite me. Finding this out, bummed me out and so I broke up with him because although i love him, the uncertainty of not knowing where I stand in his life is too overwhelming.
I also feel guilty that he left his wife to have a relationship with me (we dated for a month before he left her). He says he loves me (cooks for me, spends the weekends with me, and we have a great connection) but I question if he'll ever truly file for a divorce (am I being strung along for sex)?
Do you feel I made the right decision by ending my relationship with him? Thanks.
Any feedback, insight would be fantastic!