[GingerSnapParticipant December 10, 2013 at 3:29 pm Post count: 1]

#23818 |

I've been in a relationship for almost nine years. During that time we've graduated high school, we did long distance, I've graduated college, and we are now both working adults. Without going into all of the details, he is my best friend, but I know he is not the man I should marry nor the partner I want in life. How do I go about bringing up the conversation and going through with it without getting sucked back in or guilt tripped?

[MartinKeymaster December 11, 2013 at 6:40 am Post count: 250]

#23845

Have you tried talking about your mutual life goals, to start with?
This should bring about some clarity for you both in where each of you is intending to head.

[BellaParticipant December 15, 2013 at 8:22 am Post count: 23]

#23975

How do you know he isn't the guy for you?

[Anonymous May 25, 2015 at 6:27 pm Post count: 10]

#29065

If you think he is not the right man for you, you should talk to him nicely but to the point about how you feel. I think that he will definitely understand..

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