Guys, we’re all doomed.

Here’s why:

You’re an easy target of the predation from affair-seeking women who want their way with you.


My Own Story Of An Affair

Woman having affair under the tuscan in a sheer sundress

Danger, Danger, Danger

Desiring you is an area you might not be getting at home.

I’ve known her for many years. Let’s call her MsJ. We used to work together and were great mates at work.

My wife and I were holidaying in Tuscany and had rented a beautiful 2 story villa. White-walled, warm, and comfortable – the perfect setting for a romantic holiday away.

We were both attending a local party when I spotted MsJ across the room. Wow, I hadn’t seen her for such a long time. I casually made my way across the room and said ‘Hi’. I noticed she was wearing a very sheer green and gold short summer dress.

The perfect outfit for the warmth of Tuscany.

After a while, we parted ways and for some reason, I needed to return to the villa.

After I closed the door, there was a knock. I peered through the curtain and noticed it was MsJ at the entrance. Hmmm, I decided to pretend not to be at home and went upstairs to the living area.

To my surprise, she was standing in the doorway, with the setting sun at her back. I noticed the silhouette of her entire body, beneath the sheerness of her clothing.

This was shaping up to be a weird and somewhat disturbing situation.

She had an intensity to her gaze.

There was something forceful in her nature and a determination.

Without a word, MsJ headed directly towards me and shoved me back against the wall. Her hand firmly slid down and grabbed me, gently and firmly. I was now certain of her intentions and was also strangely powerless to object.

Her other hand went to my shoulder. Without much effort, I was forced to my knees, her sheer undergarments pulled aside and I was thrust inward.

And then I woke up … hot and very bothered, by what was a very bad dream.

Disclaimer: I recounted this story to my lovely second wife Pam Allen, in detail, when she woke up.


The Moral Of This Affair Story

Why am I telling you the details of a somewhat salacious dream?

Men are pawns when it comes to female predators

Men are pawns when it comes to female predators.

Over my many years, there have been several occasions when women predators have taken careful aim and a certain strategy to have what they couldn’t have.

If I was in a relationship at the time, I was aware of my surrounding as well as the perils.

Outside a relationship, they were somewhat ruthless.

And this is where I come to the word of warning for guys.


The Best Laid Plans Of Mice And Men

Guys, when you become the target, you’re just a mouse.

Be very clear on that.

You’re just prey, without knowing you are.

Defenseless and unsuspecting.

Thornhill and Gangestad, 2008  …  Women, by comparison, tend to cheat more selectively. Women tend to be more flirtatious, risk-taking, and act in sexually provocative ways when they are ovulating.

  • No matter how comfortable you think you are in a relationship, the potential does exist to tempt you.
  • You’ll find the forcefulness strangely intoxicating and attractive.
  • The attention you get might be refreshing.
  • Desiring you is an area you might not be getting at home.
  • Your combined animal instincts are certainly something that will have waned at home
    • Adding further fuel to the passionate fires.
  • You’ll lose your normal rationale and be plunged into a situation you’ll regret, just as soon as leave her influence.
  • And the damage will have been done, forever …..


Safeguard And Mindset – Remember These Words

Human beings all have their own weaknesses.

The different genders have differing frailties but frailties they are, all the same.

Men are visual creatures, typically (but not always) the initiators and the hunters.

When it comes to a predatory female, most men would find that oddly refreshing when confronted by that female.

It’s a matter of reverse desire – the man being the one of desire and the object of the hunt.


Protect Yourself

Say no to predatory women

Talk to the hand
Say ‘No’ to predatory women and end it before it starts

Sure it’s exciting to be the object of affection.

It’d also be refreshing with the thought of exposure to new experiences with someone that’s forceful, dominating, and says what she wants. Typically, that’s out of character with the majority of women (which it shouldn’t be).

But you’ll eventually end up the loser in all this.

Secrets rarely stay secrets, especially with men.

Your life will be over for a long long time.

I’ve outlined what you need to be on alert for.

‘They’ lurk in the shadows, beware and play safe.

Play at home, with someone you love.


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Enjoying newly found freedoms in South-East Asia, Martin is a down to earth, honest, quirky humor, compassionate and upfront kinda guy. Easy going and love to laugh. Into good food, wine and great company. I’ll talk and try to help anyone.
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Martin Cooney – who has written posts on GeekandJock.