quit the nagging and understand your values

Consider Some Testicle Respect

Men and women are totally different creatures, nuff said as we all know it.

Nagging emancipates the guy as well as making him feel less in control

I wonder how many women in today’s society are clutching their guy’s balls, firmly with both hands though?


Guys Need To Own Their Testicles

Well, figuratively speaking, there’s many wives and girlfriends acting in an outwardly masculine fashion.

your choice of manhood options
Which option are you giving your guy to take?

I’m sure I’ll get screamed at by many feminists however, by the very nature of the gender differences, it’s safe to say that men and women will really have basic actions and reactions, based on their hormones and makeup.

That’s where I’m coming from when I talk about ‘testicles’.

Just as women love to be feminine, guys need the freedom to act like and be a man.



We’ve all got different values and priorities.

When they’re out of alignment and especially when the lady isn’t getting what she needs, she’ll often revert to ‘nagging’.

This emancipates the guy as well as makes him feel less in control.

He’s no longer the leader, he’s lost the male vitality he craves.


Understand Other’s Values


Have you ever discovered what exactly drives your partner?

We all have our own unique value system and, for the most part, our actions are driven by them.

Here’s an example:

Husband: His values involve ensuring his family is well catered for and does so through his job and bringing home a good paycheque.

Wife: One of her high-listed values is looking fabulous for her husband.

Scenario: The wife is getting pissed at the husband for working late. WTF is wrong with this guy? Is he having an affair? Maybe he doesn’t love me anymore? Does he know I sometimes get lonely when he’s working so long and late?

Resolution: Well this is really just plain easy.

Ask the question: “Hey Babe, can we both figure out each other’s Top Ten values in life?”

Scenario after resolution: Husband sends sexy wife an SMS “hey beautiful. Wanna meet me for coffee at 6 over at CoffeeLovers? Wear something sexy as I want to buy you some silk underwear which you need to try on”

The wife knows the husband needs to work late sometimes so his value system is met.

Husband recognizes wife’s wants and needs and they both reach a mutual compromise which can also be great for a healthy relationship.


Why Take The Balls?

Leave them where they rightly belong.

Forget about busting his nuts and diagnosing why YOU yourself feel the need to dominate what should be a respectful and mutually rewarding relationship.

Better understand each other’s value system and highest values and apply broad brush compromises so everyone is reasonably happy and content.

Life, as well as relationships, are founded on finding the balance point from which to move forward.

Nothing is totally perfect.

Everything can be magical in the eyes of those who weave their own destinies.


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3 thoughts on “Give Your Man Back His Testicles”
  1. Wife's birthday and our long time anniversary are two days apart. Bought her flowers and nice card for anniversary. Took her to romantic dinner that evening. Two days later took her to Manhattan and spent evening in swanky hotel. Had nice lunch, another romantic dinner and then a nice brunch the following morning. Went to see movie she wanted to see that afternoon. Gave her shopping money for birthday gift and took her shopping in Soho. On the following day, arranged for adult children, their partners and her mom to come to dinner at restaurant to celebrate her birthday. Picked up one son and his partner (round trip 40 miles) so that they could attend. That evening she flew off the handle and was pissed that I didn't have a birthday cake for her at that dinner. Ruined the entire week and weekend for me. Have been on the couch for four nights and getting the could shoulder. Hearing about what a heartless, insensitive a-hole I am. I feel like I'm going insane. Can't reason with her. Feel totally unappreciated. Affecting my work, my health, my confidence. Comments?

    1. A great many thanks for visiting the site and allowing us to help you sort this shit out.

      You know – I do feel and know your pain, my friend!

      Firstly, I’d love you read a post that might give you some background which is When Giving, Honesty and Caring Will Damage You – I’m referring to this one as it outlines my thoughts on the types of people that both you and I probably are. That is, giving as much as we can to others but the issue is around the understanding and reciprocation of kindness from others.

      Make sense?

      Getting back to your comment though, shit!!!!
      You’ve really gone the full 9 yards here and beyond. You’re obviously caring, considerate and mindful of others and what needs to happen to bring happiness to those you care about.

      To put this all into some perspective though. You are a sensitive guy who’s being taken advantage of, in a big way.

      I’m going to presume here this isn’t an isolated instance either. It sounds like this sort of thing has happened in the past and probably often too. With this in mind:

      do you know what your wife’s ‘high values’ are
      does she know yours?
      What are those sorts of things for you both that are important?
      Is she giving sexually (in the better times) or does she use holding tactics?
      Do your other relatives treat you similarly?

      Please do come back and let’s get you sorted out so you can get back some sanity and start living a great life.

    2. Wow, I was just updating some older posts and came across your comment.
      You’d be surprised I’ve had similar experiences recently to what I’ve been going through.
      Could I ask you touch base with me at [email protected] as I’m also putting together a new eBook on our situation – please do check out https://www.geekandjock.com/the-geekandjock-shop/avoid-the-dangers-of-dating-or-marrying-a-sociopath as I’d love your input and some history as it will go a long way to helping others make sense of all this BS or at least prevent others in falling into this trap.

      Please do let me know.

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