How To Fix Relationships With Lingerie
Lingerie can seem like more of a detail than a solution to a boring relationship
One of the things that often starts to become a problem in long-term relationships is that some of the excitement of the romance begins to slip away.
Typically, this is nobody’s fault.
When you are with someone for a long time, you grow comfortable with that person, and the two of you become part of each other’s routines.
To some extent, this is simply the nature of a relationship.
However, if you’re not careful, it can also lead to you putting a bit less effort into your partner.
From there, it is a fairly quick process to your relationship becoming a bit dull.
Fortunately, this is a very common problem, which means that people have come up with all sorts of ways for dealing with it.
Some couples like to get away together for second honeymoons to bring some life back into their relationships.
Others have success with marriage counseling or even sex therapy.
And still, others make adjustments in their lives to allow for more time to spend on each other.
However, there are also some surprisingly simple ways to address dull relationships and bring some spice back into things.
Have you considered something as simple as a bit of sexy lingerie?
Sure, lingerie seems like more of a detail than a solution to a boring relationship.
You might be shocked at the effect buying some sexy lingerie may have on your sex life with your partner, and, through that, your overall relationship.
Your first step should simply be to look around and see if you find anything that appeals to you, and that you think you and your partner might enjoy.
You can find a pretty large variety of sexy lingerie at a number of different stores out there, which means that you will have almost limitless options to choose from as you look for some new bedroom outfits.
Here are a few ideas, if this is a bit of an unfamiliar concept for you:
Of course, corsets may not be the most comfortable type of clothing available to you, but if you want something that will excite your partner when you break it out at night, this is a great way to go.
A corset will show off your breasts like just about nothing else will, and also gives you a generally tight and sexy appearance.
Not only that but putting on a corset for your partner makes it clear that you intend to have some fun with him.
Another full bedroom outfit that may help you to make your sex life a bit more vibrant, a babydoll serves multiple purposes.
For one thing, it can be comfortable and free-flowing while still showing off your legs and breasts and making you look sexy.
This is a bit more of a playful approach, but make no mistake, your partner will get the message.
There is also a great deal of variety in babydolls, from the size and fit to color and style, which means that you can have some fun selecting a few.
Garters are extremely sexy and can be used in a variety of different outfits.
This is a fun option because it provides you with something that looks sexy, but can also be a bit of fun to play with.
Letting your partner undress you can be particularly sexy with something like a garter on, so you can find ways to have a lot of fun with this sort of lingerie.
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19 thoughts on “How To Rekindle and Fix Relationships With Lingerie”
LIngerie spices sex life both man & woman. I love my girl wear babydoll. She loves lot :)
You sound all hot and bothered there, Ahsan :)
Great post my friend –
I have been single for the last 3 years of my life and I love myself enough that I wear these beautiful lingerie for ME – I have many pieces and I still buy them for me to experience the woman in ME – that’s the beauty of self love my friend. Do it for yourself first and then the universe will deliver!
You simply rock, Nancy.
It’s a wonderful thing to see a truly liberated (and yet a grateful) woman who is OK in her own skin.
You know of a few of my recent posts around the self-image issues of today’s women so it really is cool to see you have come to terms with who you are. And equally wonderful in knowing you love lingerie for yourself and, secondly, not afraid to play with a partner too.
I think I need a second Honeymoon. My Lingerie has disappeared and settled comfortably somewhere. They need to be found. LOL! Great post Sandra. I really enjoyed reading it and was reminded of a thing or two…changes that I need to make. I’m a bit too comfortable now. Love the pics by the way.
Welcome to the site, Vernette and thank for sharing your thoughts too.
It was interesting to read your lingerie has been ‘lost in transit’ somewhere. I always think that complacency often just creeps into a relationship without us even knowing. And that very relaxed nature often has a tendency of making us overlook the importance of some sexual spice with our partner.
As George Michael sang ‘Sex is natural and sex is good’.
Great comment in recognizing there’s always something more that can be done in rocking your world, with your guy.
Just to reiterate, fellas love to see their lady in something sexy. It’s a real turn on to us. Forget the second honeymoon and start right now. If you ladies don’t have sexy underwear or lingerie, get out there and grab some – you’re both missing out on some fun times.
Yes Vernette – I need to really refresh my lingerie drawer now lol
Out with the old and in with the new lol
Can I ask for a few hints in what you’ve done so far?
Wow, I never knew these pieces of lingerie has an effect on relationships too. I guess if you’re going to look like a Victoria Secret model for a night for your man, things will surely spice up your boring routine (catch up on work assignments, reading, sleeping early) at night. :)
Oh, you have no idea just how much a male partner is turned on by lingerie, Sara.
Like a moth to a flame. Like CupidLover said in a previous comment, it’s a win-win relationship situation too. The woman feels sexually confident and totally female (in this trusted environment) and the guy is simply in 7th heaven. That’s a formula for ‘WOW’.
Can I hear you making a shopping trip appointment to the nearest Lingerie Shop now?
I think I will go out for shopping…
How did the shopping go, Sara?
As a guy, those corsets are damn sexy!
Wow Sara, you don’t need to be a Victoria Secret model LOL
I’ve always found that when I slip into my sheer teddy, my boyfriend instantly thinks I’m his model. It’s pretty amazing to see a guy change to being instantly mezmorised lol
Get out there, girlfriend and get yourself some sheer goodies. I guarantee you’ll do some fixing of your own lol
I use this all the time LOL
Nothing hots up my guy more than seeing me in all the full corset outfit. I can almost see his little pressure cooker starting to steam hahaha
It also makes me feel incredibly sexy and able to use my sexuality for the good of our relationship, not to mention spicing up the sex play and fantasy.
Hahaha I think your guy is just normal :)
And thanks for sharing your own thoughts in that it makes you feel great too – always wonderful when something is a win-win situation, in a relationship
This really is a simple and much cheaper way of spicing things up in a marriage. It’s not just a way for women to bring a little more excitement in their relationship, it also shows their husbands that they’re willing to do more effort in making sure that he is satisfied and happy.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Jan – great to have your visit.
Yes, it really is a simple thing to do and brings considerable benefit to a partnership.
What’s your own personal favourite lingerie?
P.S Could I also suggest you go get yourself a Gravatar as well – http://www.gravatar.com
The pictures were enough for me :)
Anyway, yeah, women do have an increased charm about them when it comes to wearing lingerie. Dunno what it is but it’s a powerful force that I know I’m unable to resist.
If only more ladies understood that guys love lingerie and what it can do to reinforce that their lady loves them and wants them.
Hahaha well you can thank me for the pics, Mitch.
I always like to format and add media etc if the guest poster hasn’t done so. I now have a much better appreciation for all the available lingerie types thanks to Google Images.
Some great ideas in the post though and I’m interested to hear from the female readers on their views and opinions. So bring that ON!!!