I think that state of confusion is with both men and women about the other gender. We'll all very different individuals and throw in gender and you get a huge melting pot of diverse thinking. Without being able to read another person's mind, we live in a state of unknowing.
A very big shift in the way we deal with another person, especially your partner, is to move into a state of acceptance.
Reply To: Both Guys and Gals are confused, MitchMartin