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Thank you for taking the time to come on in and let's know what's going on in your life.

And I presume you're looking for some opinion too.

From what you say, I see a few things that need looking at though:

  • There's some unhealthy snooping going on with the guy – kinda weird that he fled the scene when this was brought up. If this was innocence on his part, there'd be a simple explanation too.
  • He is using manipulative techniques. By that I mean…
    • Guilt by bringing in his ex-girlfriend
    • More guilt on the ‘drama life before you' comment

These are quite honestly ‘bad boy' behaviours that many women unsuspectingly fall into so you really do need to ensure this is NOT happening here – despite what you're feeling for him.

So what is it you want to do next in this ‘relationship'?