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Bella
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Thank you,

Sorry it was so long I didn't realize it until I looked today. I feel like because he is so emotionally unstable he has made me unstable over the last few years and now our friends have meshed together since we were friends in High School and I'm not entirely sure how this will all play out. School is going okay for me, but I go to a small private school and everyone is mostly worried about drinking as much as possible and I got tired of dealing with those people so for the most part we have the same friends, he is my best friend. I don't know how to “take a break” this is our first real relationship for the both of us, and it's just really upsetting.

I do know I need to let him find his own, but sadly I'm not sure he will…that's why I'm afraid. I know eventually I can get back to the “old” me and be okay but i think in the back of my mind I will always think what if I could have done something.