Apologies in the delay in replying. Got a few health issues happening with the family at the moment as well as moving this site to a bigger VPS server and ironing out some bugs blah blah.
OK,  forget what your fucking ex is telling you, OK? It's likely it's all about pumping up his ego and winning … or at least thinking you think that. Forget him and whatever he tells you.
 On the ‘A' guy, it's new and remember there's this weird no-call-back dating crap going on in some people's heads.
 But more important, I'm really guessing you haven't read my posts on getting clear on who it is you want in your life and giving that focus. You might well have the notion of you ‘ex' so that's the BS you will attract.