I'd suggest you still keep it chill.
It's only been a week or so, so give it time. I know you're eager to find that silver bullet but you have to realise different people do things at a different pace.
He sounds like he's still got a number of important priorities to sort out which include his family situation and moving out – those are pretty major and he may well just need his own ‘quiet time' to sort a few of these major mental obstacles out. Once he does, that allows more space to think clearer and I'd suggest that would include you.
I know this is challenging for you. You've got some of your own priorities yourself besides him so get those sorted, focus on them so you both have space. When some of his baggage is thrown out, there's more room in his head for you.
As a parting comment: Remember you are your own wonderful woman and a great individual.