that sounds really hard and when I think about that partner I think of him before he became a teacher when he was working in the hospital. From last year he has been different like more stressed and with the issues at home ( I know it sounds like im making excuses but honestly he has bad issues with his family). Before this he was perfect sweet caring stopped by my house more and then once teaching began it poof destroyed it. I supported him through the schooling even when he went through the horrible moods.
I know I am flawed and I have tried to work on mine. but the whole fun thing. That really bugs me because I try to be fun but when I ask something in regards to our relationship he gets annoyed or says I ask that every day then I get a bit worried about what happens then.
He just called from boys night drunk like everything fine and he still cares and wants to be around. Its just so confusing.