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Martin
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Now that’s an interesting situation indeed.
I never condone lying of any kind in a relationship myself. Other people however do so and do so without malice and having good intentions – see Is Lying Ever Acceptable In A Relationship.

Your words suggest to me though that you mainly broke it off as the ex-heroin user girlfriend was there and not mainly due to the lie. So what’s the issue with that with you?

Was the girlfriend there in support of the son? Do you dislike the girlfriend? We’re you looking for a reason to end it with your boyfriend and this was it? What did the boyfriend tell you when you arrived to the discovery? You’re suggesting you ended a relationship due to someone else’s parenting skills?

There’s probably more to it than I’m aware of, from your initial question.