Home Forums Relationships General Relationships I need to understand Reply To: I need to understand

Post count: 250

Actually, she'll know exactly what it is – it's more she's not wanting to say, embarassed to say or unsure how to say it – here's where you need to ‘man up' and put your frustrations away and learn about understanding and empathic to allow her time and opportunity to be comfortable in confiding in you and trusting you.

That's sometimes a tough move for some. Read that post I pointed you to and start the conversation with her that you're there for her and you so want to be her best friend. Totally avoid any sort of guilt trip about the lack of intimacy as you'll simply fuck things up – the focus is on her and you becoming soulmates.