Thank you for your response.
You make valid points. I feel like a jerk for letting it go on this long. I keep trying to reason with myself why I should stay, none of which are “because we are so in love” or anything like that. Another issue I have is that we work together. I don't want to quit my job because of a break up, no matter how bad, but I don't know if I can stay because seeing him every day would wear my resolve and I might give in…that is if he doesn't hate me after all of this. I know in my heart this isn't where I want to be, but I haven't been able to get that through my head :) This is really hard. Thanks for listening.