Well i agree with you. I do want him back. But not because i broke them up. I want him to leave her, go through it, and then come back to me. I would rather have him in my life as a friend than not at all. that's the tough part. She doesn't want me to be his friend. He fights that, and i am happy about that.
I do want more with him but i am ok with just being friends as well. WE had finally gotten to a place where we had a healthy friendship and didn't argue anymore. And then they got together and i am a problem now.
So do i have to sacrifice a friendship with him to move on. Can i not settle for being friends with him, date other people and cut out the emotional affair? Is it even possible without cutting ties altogether, to really end that emotional affair?