JamesMarch 19, 2012 at 4:26 pmPost count: 0
About 2 months ago my neighbour and I started doing more than the usual “Hi's” at the mailbox, and started hanging out watching movies etc. Then a few weeks ago i surprised her with a desert from my work after she had mentioned how much she loves them, which led to us chatting til around 5am. Then the other night she kissed me. I respect her as a person, and find her very attractive. Should I pursue this?
MartinKeymasterMarch 19, 2012 at 4:33 pmPost count: 250
Hey, thanks for the visit and the question, James.
My answer: Hell, yeah!
You've got the right attitude going for a start. And that's you respect her. Being attracted gets your motor started and your radar attuned.
Take it slow and obviously cautious but that ‘kiss' is certainly showing there's an attraction on her side of things as well. You've got a head start on my guys. And please be transparent, thoughtful and chat about your initial reluctance to ask her out but you feel compelled to. Simply ask her how she is feeling about the possibilities. Unless you ask, the answer is always going to be no. I'm betting there's a strong opportunity for ‘Yes'.
Please do come back and let us know how you go too. I'm really interested.
JamesMarch 22, 2012 at 6:10 amPost count: 0
Thank-you for the advice, once again the internet has helped me out haha! We went on a date last night, had a wonderful time, and at the end she said shes looking forward to seeing me soon (friday), and expects me to bring movie over to watch after she cooks dinner for us/orders takeout (she hasn't decided haha!). Once again, Cheers for the advice!
MartinKeymasterMarch 22, 2012 at 10:28 amPost count: 250
That's simply fabulous, James.
I love seeing people coming together and making a go of things. Now for the big decisions such as what movie, Chinese or Pizza and what dessert you should secretly bring along :) It's getting tough now haha.
All the very best, James.
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