Sex Toys – Yah or Nah?

Be a little adventurous then there is plenty of fun to be had

After you’ve been in a relationship for a few years, it’s easy to let things in the bedroom slip into a repetitive routine, each time you get intimate.

Once you start having kids then that usually serves to accelerate the steady decline in your sexual activity.


Climb or Decline?

This is not necessarily as common as you might think, or so some will have you believe, but most of the people I know who have been in long-term relationships share the same sorry tale.

If you want to either avoid this situation or indeed would like to turn things around and steer your relationship towards something far more exciting and rewarding in the bedroom, then you need to be creative.

This is easier said than done, but if you and your partner are willing to be a little adventurous then there is plenty of fun to be had.

This is obviously a pretty big step for most people, but sex toys are mainstream now and the best sex toys and best vibrators truly live up to their billing as offering guaranteed orgasms.


Subtle Suggestion Is The Key

Many girls have some sort of sex toy these days, but even so, you still need to be subtle when you suggest introducing it to your relationship.

For example, you could casually mention that lubricants and vibrators seem to be freely available in your local drug store and that this seems to signal changing attitudes.

In fact, using lubricants is a great way to start experimenting with something different because it possesses an element of edginess and almost sparks a sense of adventure.


Should You or Shouldn’t You?

How you introduce sex toys to a relationship is ultimately down to you, your particular situation, and how confident you are that your partner will be open to the idea.

While men can feel threatened by a sex toy, there is no need for this because it is not going to replace you. The best advice is to learn how to use it so that you can share in your partner’s pleasure.

There are hundreds of sites that can offer all the advice you need in terms of what to buy and what to expect so there is no reason not to explore this.

Sex toys come in all shapes and sizes

Sex toys come in all shapes and sizes
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Judging by the reactions of those who have crossed the divide, most of them wish they hadn’t waited so long.


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Addison is a thirty something writer and sex toy enthusiast, who regularly tests and reviews sex toys for a number of publications. Addison also regularly writes about sex and relationships.

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