I was chatting to a work mate last week about who they believe would be the most important person in a relationship.

They weren’t sure.

I’d love to hear your comments on this one, below, so here’s my own personal point of view.

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So who do you think is most importnt?


Who? Your Partner Is!

If you’re in a relationship, the whole reason for your being is ensuring your partner lives in your world with total comfort and safety.

Why them though?


They love you to their very core, without reservation.

– A partners’ love is an exceptional kind and significantly different to others.

The only kind of love where you are an integral part of them – read ‘oneness’.


They hide nothing from you.

– Honest and open transparency.

Well, that’s definitely where everyone’s partnership should be headed anyway.

Sure, when you start off, there’s likely to be gaps where we’re a little sensitive and maybe relucant to share some of our history.

That’s natural since there’s still doubts the other person is THE ONE.

Once you finally realise you’ve found your soulmate, what’s stopping you?

Do you share your goals in life and where you’d like the both of you to head in life?

Do you both have meaningful conversations between the two of you of each others’ wants and needs and goals?


They are (and will be) always there for you, whenever and whatever the challenge you might experience.

– When we’re single and ‘out and about’, we’re like a lone gunman / gunwoman.

We’ve got our walls up and a single person doing battle with everything external can often be quite a challenge.

Ever heard of the saying ‘two heads are better than one’?

Well, ‘Two people in togetherness are better than one acting in isolation’.

They act in harmony, move through life on the same steady and mutually agreed path and watch each others’ backs.

Total transparency between two people provides both with an incredible and unbreakable support foundation.


They see you as their completion – two individuals forming one.

– What’s really to say on this – PURE MAGIC!


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Enjoying newly found freedoms in South-East Asia, Martin is a down to earth, honest, quirky humor, compassionate and upfront kinda guy. Easy going and love to laugh. Into good food, wine and great company. I’ll talk and try to help anyone.
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Martin Cooney – who has written posts on GeekandJock.