Whether you’re in a relationship or looking for love, our busy lifestyles mean that making time for our significant other or going out and meeting new people has never been so important-or stressful!
Sometimes even the thought of date nights can be daunting; finding time in your schedules, deciding where to go and especially hunting down the perfect outfit for your special evening seems a little overwhelming.
It might seem shallow but what we wear, particularly where romance is concerned, really does influence our behaviour and the way we feel on dates.
Everybody wants to feel confident and project that feeling, which is why it’s so important to pick clothes that show off our best features while still being comfortable and appropriate.
We all have that go-to LBD or well-loved tie and cuff links but every so often we deserve to treat ourselves to something new, and get a confidence boost to feel amazing inside and out.
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Finding that perfect new date night outfit has never been easier!
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Entering the competition is easy, just answer the question below in the comments section:
“What is your no fail tip for a smooth sailing date?”
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- Competition open to Australian residents over the age of 18 only
- The giveaway is a game of skill. Entries will be judged on originality and creativity, editor’s decision is final
- There will be one winner receiving a $200 Westfield Voucher. Prize not negotiable, cannot be exchanged or taken as cash
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- One entry and 2 bonus entries per person
- Competition opens October 10th, 2013 and closes October 30th, 2013
Stay cool, calm and collected! Keep the conversation flowing and try to stay positive! (Even if the date isn’t what you thought it was going to be)
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Beano for those nervous farts you have to hold in for the whole date
Where your best Lingerie so you are feeling sexy and confident and keep smiling, and only meet for a coffee the first time :)
Que Sera Sera, whatever will be, will be, the futures not our to see, so just relax, have fun, don’t take things to seriously, because when you find the “one” it won’t matter what you do, because it was always meant to be !
Show the side you love most about yourself. If you are radiating confidence in who you are, there is nothing more attractive!
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I am already liked on the site, and have looked into selecting guys, but am to afraid.
What’s your answer to the main question though, Barbara?
Make sure you have something planned for the date, don’t just “wing” it
Let them know you have siblings that are far more handsome, funny and caring than you are :D
You’ll have a ball without all the pressure and your date will be sure to stick around for a referral :)
Already dancing with you on Facebook, and am holding hands with you on Google+ now also :)
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Just go with it! Enjoy a new experience. Have no expectations! If you are looking for what you think is ‘mr or mrs right’ that hasnt worked in the past it wont now. Open your mind and heart to a new relationship, to new experiences, and new points of view, even if it just ends in friendship its worth while.
just relax as nerves can really make you act not so true to your real self
Speaking from past bad experienced dates…stay away from Ex talk. Just ruins the fun of the night. Keep these things for later on to discuss :)
Is to listen to the other person, and be interested in what they have to say.
People love talking about themselves. So, ask questions (not too personal) but make sure you take interest and actually listen to the answer. The answers will also help you make up your mind if you are even interested in your date!
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I keep date nights interesting by suggesting an adventure like roller-skating, something you can both learn and laugh at together!
go with a smile on you dial and a wiggle in your walk and you can’t go wrong
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Hey Nicole – thought I’d check in and say that I don’t think you’ve answered the first question which is “What is your no fail tip for a smooth sailing date?”
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Pick a date activity you actually enjoy, it will ease your nerves and give your date an insight into who you are
Apear to be interested in what your date is saying even if he is butt ugly and lied about his profile details, ie height, age or body size.
Behave yourself my lovely x
Listen! Don’t talk incessantly about yourself.
Take a good sense of humour – it will help you both relax, its keeps the mood light and can make the date interesting and fun!
dont drink too much.
limit yourself to one alcoholic drink. you don’t want to get drunk and say or do something to embarrass yourself or something you’ll regret.
do not talk about your ex!
Dramamine. If none, man up, face downwind and hope your date feels as bad as you do. (Sailing, right?)
Be yourself, if you are going to “click” it’s best done honestly, then you have a long lasting chance at a “forever” relationship.
Remember your manners!
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Nanna knickers. You are in control!
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Let genuine interest be your rudder in steering the conversation. Don’t be afraid to reveal yourself because no-one is perfect – every Love Boat has a few leaks in it but that doesn’t mean it won’t float!
Being Honey and Myself
Always relax and be yourself and be happy and positive with a big smile in your eyes too
Just be yourself, relax and enjoy the night by spending time to listen and get to know your date better so you don’t get uncomfortable and begin a friendship first.
Neatly presented and courteous.
Take chocolates, if the date doesn’t work out at least you can be guaranteed the chocolates will make you feel better.
Make sure you can both have a good laugh
My tip is to plan some conversation starters beforehand. Its a great idea to have a little list in your head on what to say to your date so theres no awkward lull in the conversation :)
Listen well. People love to talk about themselves and it’s a great way to learn about your date.
If they have a tag around their leg and want to stay at home, it’s OK to pull the pin!
Remember it’s only one of potentially many, so there’s no pressure for it to be perfect!
Be yourself and relax.
It’s a great question and one I think everyone struggles with. So that I can win the competition (hahaha), here’s what I have done in the past:
I treat all dates as a special time with a special person BUT I also look at it as a business meeting I.e that allows me to remove the first-date butterflies and be far more relaxed than I used to be able to do. Way less pressure on my brain.
So this way, I can just let the conversation flow. Oh, I also never go out on a dinner date either. Always a coffee meetup at a place of her choosing so she feels relaxed and safe.
And I can tell you that every one of these sorts of dates have been great too. I’ve met some great people in the past, this way.
Ask lots of questions and take a real interest in what they are saying.
listen and be yourself
hope for the best plan for the worst:-)
Always respect yourself and who you are with.
Be yourself!
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Engage in conversaion and keep your phone in your pocket. Only use it incase you need to escape from your date!
Ask your date lots of questions so he wall talk about himself – you’ll learn so much this way!
I think it is important to find out what a person does for a job and talk about whether they like it or not.
“What is your no fail tip for a smooth sailing date?”
A cup of good conversation, a handful of glamour, a nip of the wild side, stir and you have the perfect first date!
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Smile, relax, and be yourself! If someone’s on a date with you already, it means they liked you enough to say yes, so you’re already doing something right.
Circled eHarmony AU on Google
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Remember to smile. Frequently and genuinely.
Because a smile is like a boomerang, you always get it back.
keep the conversation upbeat and positive, no talking about ex-partners or complaining, just smile and enjoy.
Be happy in your skin, relax and let the fun begin.
Just relax! Be natural and remember to breathe! Don’t forget the mints either.
Clean hair, clean teeth and clean undies – first impressions count! :)
Not bringing up conversations about your ex
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Be yourself and don’t try too hard!
Stay calm and treat the date just like you would if meeting a friend for a casual catch up