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Relationships are great: you can enjoy a loving, intimate connection with the same person every day and you both know exactly what drives the other wild.

In time a sexual connection can often go off the boil.

Familiarity, the pressures of life, and even hormones all play a part, so anything you can do to add a bit of spice into the bedroom is a good thing.

Sex toys for couples are great for adding some excitement into a stale sex life, but if you have never introduced a sex toy into your relationship before, it can be a tricky subject to broach.

The key here is to push embarrassment to one side and start off with a couples’ friendly sex toy from an adult store such as

So if you need a helping hand, here are a few ideas to get you started.


If you want to take the soft approach to sex toys, a good place to begin is with a couples’ massage.

Look for a body massager with lots of features:

  • if it is waterproof you can use it in the shower or bath, and
  • if it has several modes of stimulation, you can ramp up the pleasure bit by bit.
couples massage

couples massage


Vibrators are fun for couples to use together, and the We-Vibe is a great choice.

Designed to be worn by the woman, it is nicely curved and when in place, it has a comfortable, snug fit for maximum clitoral and g-spot stimulation.

The vibrator can be controlled by a button on the device, or via a smartphone app, so you can be firmly in control of your partner’s pleasure if desired.

we-vibe vibrator

we-vibe vibrator


Couples’ Friendly Bondage Restraint Kit

If Fifty Shades got your juices flowing, why not have fun playing some light bondage games in the bedroom?

A couples’ friendly bondage restraint kit is an excellent place to begin if you want to explore power games in private.

Look for a kit with adjustable Velcro restraints to fit any size bed.

Whatever role you choose to take, both of you will be in seventh heaven.


Cock Rings

As the name suggests, a cock ring is designed to be worn by the man around the base of his penis.

Designs vary, but vibrating cock rings stimulate the woman’s clitoris during intercourse, so both of you experience the pleasure.

There are lots of different cock rings on the market.

Cheaper models are fun but don’t last long whereas more expensive products come with rechargeable batteries and can be used again and again.

cock ring variety

cock ring variety


Vibrating Love Eggs

Love eggs will spice up your love life and if you opt for a remote control product, your partner can tease you from afar.

Love eggs are designed to be used internally or as an external massage device.

Either way they are deliciously pleasurable for both parties.

When introducing a sex toy into your relationship, be sensitive to your partner’s feelings to make sure they don’t feel they are inadequate in any way.

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