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The Ups, Downs, and Back Ups

I have a successful professional life.

I have a bunch of good friends and I love to spend my evening with them at our favorite hangout.

Despite this, at times, I feel lonely inside.

I feel like I am missing out on something.

Blame it on my bad luck.

I have never been successful with women.


Popularity, Not So Much

Popularity is a gift I have not received, not at least in this life, so all my attempts to approach a woman have resulted in a collection of nonsense phrases and a girl looking at me in a puzzle due to the mingled words I say when I am nervous.

The problem is that my brains travel faster than my tongue, so I cannot say all the things I think about and much less I can say them in order.

Having all these situations into account is that I started exploring the world of online dating sites and I simply discovered a new world.

The only thing you have to do to begin with is to register and some quick profile information.

You will definitely be amazed at the amount of people that, like you and me, are exploring online dating sites.

You do not have to be popular on an online dating site
You do not have to be popular on an online dating site


Where To Start?

Depending on the site, each person counts with a profile which you can read and see if your tastes match.

When that happens, you write a shy:

  • Hello, how are you?
  • or a more daring Would you like to chat for a while?

If the girl sees in your profile that you can be an eligible candidate, she answers you with an affirmative response and the conversation starts taking place.

When it is the case that the site does not provide a space to write your profile, the election of your target is a bit more difficult. Anyway, a good hint that you can use to guide yourself is the user’s name; it is unbelievable how much information about the person it can tell you.


Easier Than You Think

By all means, as you start, you realize that is it undoubtedly easier to communicate this way than face to face.

I am not saying that this is the ideal way of having a relationship, but yes to start it.

If it is the case that you are like me so you find it difficult to find the words when you have a woman you like in front of you, this system will make great difference with what you are accustomed to.


You Never Know Until You Try It!

Dating online is something I would have never imagined I would be able to do and much farther I bear the possibility that it would work, but fortunately I was wrong.

It is unimaginably easier to start a conversation having the chance of thinking what you are going to write and put your words in order making sense.

It is also incredible the amount of hours you can spend having intelligent conversations with people with your same interests.

Try it and you just might like it
Try it and you just might like it


Confession Time

May I tell you something?

Yesterday, I had finally met a girl I had been chatting with for three weeks and for the first time in my life, I managed to have a normal and pleasant conversation without rushing my words, which was owing to the several conversations we had through the Internet.

We are planning our second date for next week and this is something I know I would not have achieved if I had not started using online dating sites.


What’s Your Opinion?

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I’m the Co-Founder and Webmaster of several dating sites including Chicks for Dating website. I started in the dating area in 2005, writing articles and press releases as freelancer and helping in the envisioning and development of international dating websites (most of them from Latin-America  and Europe), believing that technology can help soul-mates to find real love and long-term relationships. I enjoy my free time reading technology articles, walking and hearing music dreaming in new dating projects.

Tom – who has written posts on GeekandJock.

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