The Top 5 examples

If you’ve ever found yourself daydreaming about sexual scenarios, you’re far from alone.

It’s a common thought to have and is perfectly normal part of sexuality.

Whether it’s oral sex, threesomes, domination, submission, exhibitionism, sex tapes, media characters or sex with a stranger, we all have our own fantasies and exploring them is simply a part of life.

Depending on what you have in mind, bringing these fantasies to life is not always an easy task.

You might need a partner, or some means of accessing one.

That said, anything safe and consensual can become reality.

You just need to know where to start.

We’ve listed some examples of the most popular fantasies below in order to inspire you and help you determine how to make yours come to life.

Domination/Submission

BDSM is a great way to explore new roles in your sex life and exchange power in a safe way.

The key to making your domination or submission fantasy a reality is finding a partner who you can trust and easily communicate with.

Safe words are important and talking about it beforehand helps create a more enjoyable experience in the end.

There are techniques and guides available to help you navigate through your first BDSM experience.

Once your research is in order, it’s time to head to the store and pick up the necessary tools.

It would be wise to go with your partner so that you can find toys that you both enjoy.

BDSM toys

Anime

For many people, the thought of their favorite anime character being with them in the real world is a provoking one at the very least.

The good news is that blurring the lines between media and reality is easily possible.

Many tools exist to help you make your dream a reality, like these anime love dolls, which are about as authentic and high quality as it gets.

Threesome

Both men and women often have fantasies about threesomes, and we all have our own takes on it.

Perhaps you enjoy the idea of having power over two women or your partner wants two males fighting over her for attention.

The first step to making this happen with your partner would be to simulate the feeling of a threesome with sex toys.

If your partner enjoys it, it’s time to speak openly with them about the idea of bringing another person into bed.

It’s key to make sure that any worries about the act are discussed in order to ensure a safe experience.

Perhaps some alcohol or music will help initially break the ice when the time comes.

Let it flow naturally and be sure to relax.

1 man and 2 women ready for a threesom

you might enjoy a threesome

Public

The allure of public sex captures many people, whether it’s for the thrill of being caught or sharpening your senses.

A great start would be to agree on making each other feel like you’re in public while still in the bedroom.

Open the curtains, turn the lights on and use your imagination to create a powerful feeling.

Romance

Many people enjoy the emotion or backstory that takes place before a sexual encounter.

If this sounds up your alley, discuss taking it slower with your partner next time.

Explore each other’s bodies, spend more time on foreplay, and have good discussion instead of diving right in.

Another helpful tip would be to slowly build up to orgasms for more pleasure.

Conclusion

Exploring your fantasy doesn’t have to be a nerve-racking experience.

If it involves a partner, it’s as simple as having an open and honest discussion where both parties can share their thoughts on the topic.

This way you can ensure that everyone has a good time in the end. Who knows, it could just be the start of something great.

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