self-image and self-confidence


Mirror, Mirror, On The Wall.

Many people would attest to the fact that the mirror is their worst enemy.

‘It definitely is,’ you may say as you read the last sentence.

This couldn’t be further from the truth.

In fact, there’s a part of your body that’s your worst enemy and it’s not your hips, the extra cushion around your waist, or the mole on the side of your chin.

No, it’s your eyes.

‘What?’ you protest.

I mean, if there’s anything you liked about yourself, it would be your eyes.


What’s The Problem?

The problem isn’t based on the fact that your eyes aren’t mesmerizing to those who reach in close enough to get a glimpse of the glimmer they hold.

No, it’s the fact that they’re lying to you and they’re lying to you in the most hurtful way ever.

Way too many times, we pick at the things that we don’t like about our bodies.

We’re failing to see that ‘sexy’ is still a word that could and should be used to describe us.

But seeing is believing right?

And if, with your own eyes, you see that your hips have extended a bit too much to the side, and your stomach isn’t as flat as it was 10 years ago, then it must be true.

Well, the likelihood that this is true is high but this doesn’t mean that you’re not sexy.

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Your eyes lie – you really are amazing


You’re Still Sexy With Age

Our bodies change and will continue to change as the years pile on.

What’s important to take note of is that what we like also changes.

Coffee was once a beverage that would never come close to your lips and you would never have thought, in a million years that you’d put licorice in the ‘candy’ category.

But now, you can’t live without them.

It’s true that some men and even women are stuck in the past and only find themselves attracted to flawless sun-kissed skin and a body that spends hours on end in the gym.

Luckily enough, we’ve got the men and women of London who truly and wholly appreciate the sexy imperfections that come with age.

So yes, even with growing older, whether you’re in your mid-30s, 40s, 50s or 60s, you’ll find a man or woman that simply falls head over heels with the parts of your body that your eyes have lied to you about.


The Real Truth

There will always be men and women who want to escort you to the most lavish events, showing you off to everyone who crosses his/her path.

‘Sexy’ is something that we all possess and with the right mindset, you can bet that your eyes will wake up to the truth.

They will show you that your ‘imperfections’ are actually the things that make you absolutely perfect and 100% sexy.

Stop allowing your eyes to play tricks on you. Fill them with positivity and you’ll see what they are really seeing, you’ll see sexy.

Be confident, be proud of the skin you’re in, and never allow your eyes to deceive you. Don’t allow the mirror to take up too much of your time.


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8 thoughts on “Not Hot Enough For You?”
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