51 Things He Wishes You Knew

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51 Things He Wishes You Knew

51 Things He Wishes You Knew

Here’s some real world truths for you ladies to digest.

How guys actually view the world and view our relationships with you.

do you think its easy for guys to be forced to understand women

Guys are always told to understand women.
It cuts both ways, ladies, so read on

51 short dot-points you need to print out, memorise and put into action.

  1. I’m a human being, just like you
  2. I’ve got feelings too – try finding them
  3. You’re the only one I tell my secrets too
  4. I think you’re gorgeous – you should as well
  5. Never ask a question you don’t wish to hear the truth of
  6. If you think I’m a mind reader, I’m not
  7. As far as being romantic is concerned, I am
  8. Not being enthusiastic about sex equates to you not desiring me
  9. I have fantasies … about you
  10. I love your imperfections. I wouldn’t be with you otherwise
  11. Your happiness is always a major priority
  12. I sometimes need empathy, just like you
  13. I love seeing you naked. Leave the lights on sometimes
  14. Words like ‘Nothing is wrong’ just makes me frustrated
  15. If you need some attention and I’m overlooking it, ask for it and I’ll be there for you
  16. Don’t leave all the decision making to me
  17. You can be adventurous too
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  18. In private, it’s ok to be uninhibited
  19. I love your opinions so have some
  20. Make an effort to discover my soft gooey centre
  21. I like being touched
  22. And I love being groped
  23. And I really love you checking me out, with desire
  24. Stop dredging up shit in the past if we’ve already talked about it
  25. If you have suspicions about me, ask me about them
  26. Stop listening to the voices in your head and listen to mine
  27. I like quiet meaningful conversations too
  28. I’ll always give you my honest opinion on what you’re wearing if you ask
  29. And what you’re wearing isn’t anywhere near as important as the person underneath
  30. I like holding hands
  31. I like looking at you when you’re asleep
  32. My biggest concern is you being safe
  33. Tell me you main priorities so I can understand
  34. Ask me mine too
  35. I like to actually hear you tell me what you love about me too
  36. You might like to ask and understand how I view love and sex
  37. Be honestly interested in one of my hobbies or interests
  38. Forget ever believing I’m likely to understand the way you think
  39. I might ‘look’ at another woman but I’m with you
  40. We forget and forgive menial little things – try it
  41. What’s with the toilet seat? If its up, put it down. If its down, we put it up. No biggie, really.
  42. If you can confide in your girlfriend and not me, you’re doing it wrong
  43. You do know talking dirty in the bedroom is a total turn-on?
  44. You’re our partner because we do respect you. Why would you think any different?
  45. We love new experiences too. Suggest some of your own.
  46. Why would we really want an airhead bimbo for a partner?
  47. We love it when you take control of a situation. Saves us doing it and shows you’re a strong woman – refer to bimbo dot point
  48. You know we’re visual. Dress up and spice up our desire. You’ll thank yourself for it
  49. If we’re quiet, it doesn’t mean we’re having an affair. We might be just tired. Ask questions
  50. If we’re quiet, it might also mean we’re sexually frustrated. Find a solution and both be happy
  51. We don’t like all this ‘women against men’ crap. Be our best friend because we want to be yours
try understanding men for a change - you might be surprised of the outcome

Try understanding men for a change – you might be surprised at the outcome

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  • Agree or just plain pissed off with an honest list?
  • What are you willing to do now?
  • And if you’re a guy, what did I miss on my list?
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  1. Avatar of John
    wrote on November 14th, 2013 at 7:40 pm


    i think i will copy all these and will give it to my girl friend by changing the meaning for a female

  2. Avatar of Mariana
    wrote on October 1st, 2013 at 4:46 am


    This post has reall made my day! Here are my favorite points (and the ones I need to remind myself more often as well):

    I’ve got feelings too – try finding them
    If you think I’m a mind reader, I’m not: AWESOME!!!!
    I love seeing you naked. Leave the lights on sometimes
    Words like ‘Nothing is wrong’ just makes me frustrated: ME TOO!!!
    If you need some attention and I’m overlooking it, ask for it and I’ll be there for you: WHY DO I sometimes act as he should know everything?
    I like being touched
    And I love being groped
    And I really love you checking me out, with desire

    • Avatar of Martin
      wrote on October 1st, 2013 at 4:54 pm


      Another post that I’m so glad you enjoyed, Mariana.
      At the end of the day, guys like to be wanted just like you.
      They don’t want or need BS talk so just say it like is and be honest in what you say and elaborate about what you’re thinking.
      We’re simple creatures, don’t you think? hahaha
      Martin recently posted..How To Have The Ideal Recipe for LoveMy Profile

      • Avatar of Mariana
        wrote on October 2nd, 2013 at 2:58 am


        Yeah, Martin! You’re right. This post reminded me of the book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. After reading this post it made me think that perhaps men and women are not so different… we are both humans, with feelings and emotions.

  3. wrote on April 18th, 2013 at 11:25 pm

    essay help

    This is an awesome post. I actually followed you from the post you made on http://growwithstacy.com/. I love your post and the information it has. These are the dare truth that our ladies will have to swallow. Men are also human beings with all those attributes.

    • Avatar of Martin
      wrote on April 20th, 2013 at 1:14 am


      Cool – I love Stacy’s site. Some truly great insights there and certainly recommended reading.
      So, I’ve listed 51 things that women need to digest and understand about what guys are thinking – what were the top 5 for you?
      Martin recently posted..Love – I’ll Keep Coming Back For MoreMy Profile

  4. wrote on February 25th, 2013 at 1:34 am


    The #6 is 110% correct. Sometimes, if not often, womens are like “Don’t do what I say, but what I ment to say.” Alright, how would we know what you would say, and not what you did? It’s quite annoying at times. With that said, nice list. Gave it a tweet :)

    • Avatar of Martin
      wrote on September 26th, 2013 at 2:27 am


      Hey Marc – forgot to say thanks for stopping by and making a comment, so thanks :)
      Yeah, the mindreader thing still gets me haha
      Thanks for the tweet too

  5. wrote on February 6th, 2013 at 3:44 am

    Alison Moore Smith

    I intended to hate this — because I usually hate such posts (and disagree with almost every point).

    You proved me wrong. I agree with almost all of them. And as a woman happily married to the same (amazing) man for over 27 years, I think I’m something of an authority. :)

    • Avatar of Martin
      wrote on February 7th, 2013 at 6:02 pm


      Welcome to you, Alison and thank you so much for a candid reply.
      It’s certainly OK to disagree with anything we offer in opinion and/or advice – that’s what a non-judgemental site is about.

      Even better that I hit the majority of points correctly, from a woman’s point of view. At least I’m learning some of the right things :)

      So now the question to you. Which ones didn’t you agree on. Those are the ones I’m more interested in knowing about and why you don’t agree too, if that’s OK to ask. Respect your reply.
      Martin recently posted..3 Things I Wish I Knew When I Was BorneMy Profile

  6. wrote on February 5th, 2013 at 11:50 pm


    I loved 13, 26 and 39. Notice any pattern? I then looked for a just as good 52!
    Haha. I couldn’t find one, so I’ll just try adding one and you’ll tell me if I’m on the right path.
    52. Be feminine. Abandon yourself into the world we create for ourselves, and forget about everything else.
    Add 13, 26 and 52 together, and you’ll likely have some of your best time (with the right guy).

    I could probably expand this into a thousand word article explaining what I mean. Being feminine is just too complex of a subject to cover in a comment! It’s just like the “be yourself” tip, it can be misinterpreted in many ways! :)

    • Avatar of Martin
      wrote on February 7th, 2013 at 5:58 pm


      Ha so I got you stumped, hey, Andrew? :)

      Yeah it’s about keeping your space and remaining true to who you are, I think.
      As guys and gals, society places all this crap on us to be something we aren’t. I love being a guy, for all my failings. I also love being with a woman who can be a woman and not something she’s been told she should be like.

      Own your power, respect another’s power and act in harmony. It seldom happens which is a sad reflection on us as humans.

      Oh, if you’d like to expand in a guest post, we’d welcome you with open arms, mate.
      Martin recently posted..You Get What You Give – A Relationship TruthMy Profile

  7. wrote on January 30th, 2013 at 10:21 am

    sally brown

    Hi Martin,

    I was thinking the same thing that your first commenter mentioned. How did you think up all these things. I like the one about dressing up and looking good for my partner. I sometimes fail in this respect because I can get lazy. Thanks for reminding me.

    I just met someone last year (our anniversary will be in May), and he is an awesome person. One of the things I love about him is his ability to talk about any issues that arise and to give me feedback. We work through any difficulties (not always easy, but we’re committed to each other), because life is just to short to worry about what will keep us apart. We are both searching and applying how we can stay together.

    At 60+ years, I think I’m finally in love for the first time in my life and really have an understanding on how to keep it moving forward. Great post, Martin! Sally
    sally brown recently posted..Gratitude – What’s In It For Me?My Profile

    • Avatar of Martin
      wrote on January 31st, 2013 at 5:39 pm


      Well, a huge huge welcome back, Sally.
      Fills my heart with utter joy that you’ve met ‘your guy’. Age doesn’t come into the equation. Gaining that level of love is worth the pain and past heartache, if you ask me.
      And all those 51 things come from my own historical experiences so I’ll wager the majority of them hold true for most guys. A great little roadmap for the ladies, if you ask me.

      Now tell me, where did you meet Mr Right?
      Martin recently posted..What Makes A Perfect Match?My Profile

  8. wrote on January 22nd, 2013 at 7:26 pm

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    It must have taken quite some time and deep thought to come up with these 51 action points which looks like a comprehensive manual – it’s genious and I love it! My lips are sealed, adding anything to this list would be taking away from it.

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