51 Things He Wishes You Knew

Here’s some real world truths for you ladies to digest.

How guys actually view the world and view our relationships with you.

Guys are always told to understand women.
It cuts both ways, ladies, so read on

51 short dot-points you need to print out, memorise and put into action.

1. I’m a human being, just like you
2. I’ve got feelings too – try finding them
3. You’re the only one I tell my secrets too
4. I think you’re gorgeous – you should as well
5. Never ask a question you don’t wish to hear the truth of
6. If you think I’m a mind reader, I’m not
7. As far as being romantic is concerned, I am
8. Not being enthusiastic about sex equates to you not desiring me
9. I have fantasies … about you
10. I love your imperfections. I wouldn’t be with you otherwise
11. Your happiness is always a major priority
12. I sometimes need empathy, just like you
13. I love seeing you naked. Leave the lights on sometimes
14. Words like ‘Nothing is wrong’ just makes me frustrated
15. If you need some attention and I’m overlooking it, ask for it and I’ll be there for you
16. Don’t leave all the decision making to me
17. You can be adventurous too
    

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18. In private, it’s ok to be uninhibited
19. I love your opinions so have some
20. Make an effort to discover my soft gooey centre
21. I like being touched
22. And I love being groped
23. And I really love you checking me out, with desire
24. Stop dredging up shit in the past if we’ve already talked about it
25. If you have suspicions about me, ask me about them
26. Stop listening to the voices in your head and listen to mine
27. I like quiet meaningful conversations too
28. I’ll always give you my honest opinion on what you’re wearing if you ask
29. And what you’re wearing isn’t anywhere near as important as the person underneath
30. I like holding hands
31. I like looking at you when you’re asleep
32. My biggest concern is you being safe
33. Tell me you main priorities so I can understand
34. Ask me mine too
35. I like to actually hear you tell me what you love about me too
36. You might like to ask and understand how I view love and sex
37. Be honestly interested in one of my hobbies or interests
38. Forget ever believing I’m likely to understand the way you think
39. I might ‘look’ at another woman but I’m with you
40. We forget and forgive menial little things – try it
41. What’s with the toilet seat? If its up, put it down. If its down, we put it up. No biggie, really.
42. If you can confide in your girlfriend and not me, you’re doing it wrong
43. You do know talking dirty in the bedroom is a total turn-on?
44. You’re our partner because we do respect you. Why would you think any different?
45. We love new experiences too. Suggest some of your own.
46. Why would we really want an airhead bimbo for a partner?
47. We love it when you take control of a situation. Saves us doing it and shows you’re a strong woman – refer to bimbo dot point
48. You know we’re visual. Dress up and spice up our desire. You’ll thank yourself for it
49. If we’re quiet, it doesn’t mean we’re having an affair. We might be just tired. Ask questions
50. If we’re quiet, it might also mean we’re sexually frustrated. Find a solution and both be happy
51. We don’t like all this ‘women against men’ crap. Be our best friend because we want to be yours

Try understanding men for a change – you might be surprised at the outcome

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