Do You Know About Dating a Cougar?
Cougars are complex, exciting, and intriguing.
Most people have no idea of what cougar dating really is.
The type of older women dating younger men, or cougars as they have come to be known, are now in vogue for being the glamorous, beautiful and often rich half of their relationships.
But there is so much more to it than that.
These women are complex, exciting, and intriguing.
That can leave men with a problem – how do you impress a woman who has seen it all before?
If you’re going to do it right, you just might need a little help from someone who knows this inside out…
Bring your ‘A’ game
Do not, I repeat, do not approach a cougar with the assumption that because she is older she is also desperate and will take whatever she can have.
Quite the opposite.
This lady doesn’t need you to feel happy – for money or for support.
She is self-sufficient and that means you need to be on top game if you want to be something she feels she needs.
Buy her dinner
Don’t assume an older woman wants to pay your half, she’s a human and not a meal ticket.
Show her you are interested in more than just her wallet by reaching for your own.
She might bat your hand away.
She might suggest going Dutch. But she won’t be put off by the fact that you have manners.
Don’t fall into the trap of assuming that from the moment you meet an older woman that you are a kept man.
Make sure you always have an opinion
If you want to be more than just another pretty face in her past, make sure you always have your own thoughts and opinions to keep conversation lively and your new lady on her toes.
It can be quite hard to keep up with cougars.
They are often very well-educated and intelligent individuals, but if you are going to be spending any time with her you need to catch her attention and show her you are on her level.
Don’t be afraid to be strong and confident
It is not hard for an older woman to find a puppy dog that wants to follow her around and admire her.
What makes for a more rewarding and exciting partnership is if you have the guts to challenge and stand up to her.
Because she is older, independent and knows what she wants the expectation is for her to be the dominant force in the relationship, but that does not mean you have to be submissive.
Give as good as you get.
Honesty is the best policy
One thing you can guarantee a cougar has not seen a million times before is a man who is confident enough to be honest.
And by that I don’t mean telling her exactly where you’d like to stick it the first moment you see her.
Tell her what you are looking for instead, what your expectations are and see if you’re a realistic match.
Some cougars are looking for a quick hook up and some want the real thing, so get this out in the open early and you will both be getting what you want.
Some call it experience, others call it baggage, what you know for sure is that your lady had a life before you came along.
This could be mean she has had children, a divorce, anything that comes with the human experience.
Do what you can to understand her situation and how she sees you fitting into it.
Appreciate these parts of her because they are what makes her unique and beautiful.
Make life an adventure for two
If you want to turn a cougar off straightaway then the couch-potato mentality is the way to go.
Slippers ready at 7pm, kettle on, Coronation on TV?
No thank you.
Everyone loves a sofa day, but only when every other day is packed with things that make life worth living.
Try something like Y Plan if you need ideas.
Older women want adventure, fun and excitement and if you aren’t going to give it to them they will find someone else who can.
One More Cougar Thing
One last tip, remember every woman is different.
You can prepare to an extent but be ready to get to know individually for all her complexities and exactly what turns her on.
What’s Your Opinion?
- What’s been your experience with spotting cougars in the wild?
- As a guy, are you interested?
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